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Two Hours in Silence

We sat together for two hours not saying a word as we drove from Sky Harbor International Airport in Phoenix to Dee Thai Resturant in Prescott, Arizona. We weren’t fighting. We didn’t listen to music. We thought maybe we’d catch a movie or go eat Indian food after we dropped my cousin off but nothing was playing at that time and the restaurant didn’t open for another two hours. We decided to drive toward home.

It was a lesson in patience and “Being.” I was uncomfortable at first and tried to make small talk. I asked if we could listen to something and Jesse said, “I’d rather it just be quiet.” I obliged. I only protested in my mind. I drove. He didn’t nap. We sat together in silence for two hours. It was the first time I’d done that in a long time. It felt good in my body to just do nothing but drive. My mind finally cleared and I felt reconnected to a larger sense of who I was, my purpose in life, and an over-all sense of well-being.

Who knew what two hours of sitting in silence would do to the soul. What if I tried this every day?

A Note about Hands-On Adjustments

This is a huge topic that deserves to be written and discussed many times over, however, for my friends who read this blog, I want to just breifly, touch on a few points baout physicla adjustments.

Thank you.

Touch is a way to focus awareness and attention. Physical touch turns on receptors in the skin which sends a signal to the brain which elicits a relaxation and calming response in the body. For most people this is useful.

As a yoga student, my teachers gave me physical adjustments to ensure that I practiced correctly at home. I am a visual and kinesthetic learner so touch works for me. I am a kinesthetic and auditory teacher. I give clear yet gentle physical cues to help my students embody their own learning.

I believe that hands-on adjustments are necessary when the teacher is highly skilled and trained to give specific, direct, precise physical adjustments. Any modality can be over-used and abused. It is up to the teacher and the student to clearly define their rules for engagement. As a student please speak up if you are given any adjustment that doesn’t work for you. As a teacher, please be extremely aware when touching ANYBODY, especially in a teaching capacity where every move counts and actions often speak louder than words.

When I give physical adjustments is it only to those students who come regularly and who I know well and I sense that they are ready to receive more in-depth instruction through strong alignment.

For the same reason we want hands-on adjustment in order to clearly and directly heighten our awareness and gain more insight into our own movements, is also why we use props in the yoga classroom: a mat, the floor, blocks, strap/belt, the wall, blankets. Although we can do yoga without a yoga mat or hardwood floor, these are great tools for learning more about our own bodies.

Thank you. And please know that when I give a physical adjustment it is because you are ready to receive a higher level of teaching/learning, never because you’re “doing something wrong.”

Essential Reading

10 Essential Herbs by Lalitha Thomas

AS IT IS: A Year on the Road with a Tantric Teacher by M. Young

Balance Your Hormones, Balance Your Life: Achieving Optimal Health and Wellness through Ayurveda, Chinese Medicine, and Western Science by Dr. Claudia Welch

Cultivating Spiritual Maturity: The Courage to Practice by Lalitha Thomas

Eat Taste Heal: An Ayurvedic Cookbook for Modern Living by Thomas Yarema, Daniel Rhoda, Johnny Brannigan 

Everywoman’s Book of Common Wisdom by Erica Jen, Lalitha Thomas, Regina Sara Ryan

Light on Yoga by B.K.S. Iyengar

Hiking the Horizontal: Field Notes from a Choreographer by Liz Lerman

Inner Yoga Selected Writings of Sri Anirvan

Intuitive Eating: EveryBody’s Natural Guide To Total Health And Lifegiving Vitality Through Food by Humbart “Smokey” Santillo, N.D.

Prakruti: Your Ayurvedic Constitution by Dr. Robert E. Svoboda

The Alchemy of Transformation, by Lee Lozowick

The Alchemy of Love and Sex by Lee Lozowick

The Joy of Sacrifice by E.J. Gold

The War of Art: Break Through the Blocks and Win Your Inner Creative Battles by Steven Pressfield

The Yogi’s Road Map: Patanjali Yoga Sutra as a Journey to Self Realization by Bhavani Sylvia Maki

To Live Within by Sri Anirvan and Lizelle Raymond

Tree of Yoga by B.K.S. Iyengar

Women Challenge the Lie: 8 Radical Moves to Get Beyond “Never Good Enough” by Regina Sara Ryan and Shinay Tredeau 

Writing Down the Bones: Freeing the Writer Within by Natalie Goldberg

Yoga Body: Anatomy, Kinesiology, and Asana by Judith Hanson Lasater, PH.D., P.T.

Also, please read this article from The Sun Magazine and please don’t buy from Amazon.com because, let’s face it, it sucks.